The Table

It took me awhile to understand that not everyone has a place in our table. It is sort of inevitable that some people need to be loved from a distance. 

I find it astounding that we somehow can accomplish things we only dream off when we let go certain chapters in our life.

It is nice to be surrounded by good people who encourages you to grow and makes you feel even better. A healthy dose of respect and appreciation also speak volumes of your standing in the circle. Personally I think it will do a lot of goodness to your self esteem and a must for self care.

Do not underestimate the impact of the circle you are in. Please remind yourself  that the connections you have; whether it is a relationship or friendships needs to be built with the right foundation. Let it be for the  greater good, of quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, the ones that spark joy and love around you.

We have made poor decisions and lessons learned. Don't fret, perhaps it was for the best during that point of time. Moving forward, we have to decide to make better choices in life. Now, don't you think that it is easier for you to decide as in who gets to sit at your table of life. I never knew until late that it is up to you... who and what you let in it.

Burrowing!

It’s hard to write, when there is so much you *don’t* want to write about. Too many things to attend to, need to manage it in one way or the other. When all I want to do is curl up in bed hoping everything will be done and fall into place. Alas, I must get up, get busy and get on with life!

Problems!

The funny thing about problems is that it is only a problem should we look at it as a problem. It will not be considered as a problem should we manage it it otherwise. The problem is only a problem if we perceive it as a problem. No problem, no problem, no problem.

Special!

When we treat all the guys that come our way as special as our special guy, what is so special about the special relationship?

Just a thought on being special and making someone feel extra special when they are really special to you.

Alone.

I like to be alone but that does not mean I am lonely. I simply embrace the solitude and seek solace by amusing myself with all things dear to me. I think you can relate to me when I said how there have been many times when we see some people who are surrounded by lots of people but at the same time feels so alone and depressed. 

Being alone because we can afford to choose to be on our own is quite different to being alone due to the fact that we do not have a choice. I love me-times and sometimes I just want to be with people I care about.

Alone, I can declutter my mind and put things in a lighter perspective. I think it is heaIthy for myself because I would be able to send out positive and good vibes when I decided to join the crowd.

The lone ranger, tee hee ;)

I did it again!

Once again, I fell into the same trap. I have forgotten the fact that no matter what ever I did or said, even with best or noblest intentions, will be misconstrued again and again. It is easy to accept and understand where it is coming from because past experiences have made certain people to form, shape, assuming the worst because it is something what they have concluded and affirmed in their pretty little minds.

Sometimes, we humans are just to arrogant to think that our believe system is flawed. It takes a lot to change  our perspective and perhaps thinking well of others is the first step one should take in order to make this world, a wonderful world.

Win!

A winning attitude is good but wanting to win at all costs is just crude!